WARIF is set to provide rape victims in Nigeria
with more than just a relief
centre
In Nigeria, the rhetoric
surrounding rape is almost comical and devastating. Apart from the
trauma of being raped, victims of rape are also forced to believe
the lie that they are to blame. If they muster the courage to speak
up (which doesn’t happen often), they are asked questions like
“What were you wearing?” or “What were you looking for there?” This
further fosters the already poisonous narrative of shame taught to
rape victims.
Between 2012-2013, the Lagos
Police Force recorded 678 cases of rape, but in Lagos, there
is only one rape relief centre. This shows the laxity of Nigerians
regarding the reality of rape. This year, a number of lawyers
saw the deficit of rape centres and begun advocating for more
rape crisis centres in the country. Abuja-based lawyers, Chinelo
Oputa and Oluwaseye Odediran spoke about the rape culture in
Nigeria and stated that more rape centres in the country will
help to tackle the stigma and silence surrounding the act and give
victims a place of comfort.
However, a rape centre needs to
serve a greater purpose than simply being a building where victims
who are raped tell their stories and not much is done about it. The
emotional trauma caused by sexual assault can be severe and
long-lasting. Victims often feel disconnected from people, angry or
depressed and so on. Some of these victims, if not all, need
adequate counselling and societal reintegration to continue their
normal lives without being hindered by this unfortunate incidence.
These victims need to be reintegrated into the society, they need
the help of doctors and physiologists. They also need safe houses
to guide them from their assaulters and to give them shelter in
their vulnerable states. And all of this does not rule out the dire
need for trained rape responders in order to create a safe
place for rape victims and curate evidence to apprehend rape
offenders in order to prosecute them
Dr.
Kemi DaSilva-Ibru, Founder, WARIF
Therefore in light of the
above-mentioned challenges, Women at Risk International Foundation,
also known as WARIF, a non-profit organisation incorporated by Dr
Kemi DaSilva–Ibru, is set to change the narrative around rape in
Nigeria by providing the right response to the inexistence of
effective rape relief centres.
This foundation was established
to raise awareness and advocate against sexual violence which is
increasing at a worrying and rapid rate in Nigeria.
“It is our primary social
responsibility to ensure that all young girls and women live in a
society free of rape and sexual violence. The opening of WARIF
Centre by Women at Risk International Foundation is the first of
many initiatives, that will be set up by the foundation and the
first step on its journey towards achieving this goal.” – Dr.
Kemi DaSilva-Ibru, Founder, WARIF
WARIF has understood the need to
provide a foundation where awareness against rape is not just
preached but also a centre for sexual assault referral is created.
The centre which has strong collaborative links with both the
Lagos State Government and other local & international
non-government organisations and related agencies provides
shelters/halfway homes, and legal aid and vocational skills centres
which will create an efficient system of referral that is made
available and can be utilised by those in need of these
services.
“I am pleased to be
collaborating on this global initiative. It is important that
the International Community come together to not only address
gender-based violence but also create resources and tools to enable
self-determination and freedom for all. The opening of Women
at Risk International Foundation does just that, it is a game
changer for being able to educate and access resources for sexual
assault survivors in a timely manner.” – Indira Henard, Washington
DC Rape Crisis Centre
Women and girls who have gone
through harrowing problems of gender-based violence will find a
safe haven in the WARIF centre which will provide them with medical
care, social support, and also promote their well-being by
empowering them.
Who Is Anita Kemi Dasilva
Ibru?
First Posted on November 9,
2012
For those
with an interest in helping Nigeria’s orphans and vulnerable female
population, Anita Kemi Dasilva Ibru is a name that comes up quite
often. As a member of the Erelu Adebayo Foundation, or ERAF,
as well as one of the two primary physicians within Ideal Eagle
Hospital, Dr. Ibru has become somewhat of a household name in many
circles within the country. For those who are unfamiliar with
the doctor and her work, however, it can be worthwhile to take a
look at just who she is and what she has done to earn such a
remarkable name for herself.
There are
many qualities and works that have helped Dr. Ibru earn her place
among NIPRO’s Global Top 40 Under 40 Nigerian Female
Professionals. Educated at John’s Hopkins Univeristy, Dr.
Anita Kemi Dasilva Ibru serves as a gynecologist through
Lagos’ Ideal Eagle Hospital. Beyond this, however, her work
with ERAF has enabled her to provide orphans with homes, to provide
starving children with food, and to provide women and older girls
who have been widowed or orphaned by the AIDS crisis with the job
skills needed to provide for their families in a safe and
sustainable fashion.
Yet all of
these things still fail to capture what makes Dr Anita Kemi
Dasilva Ibru such an important part of Nigeria. The
doctor has served in a number of different capacities to help
minimize the impacts of HIV and AIDS on the family members left
behind and to work hard for the Nigerian citizens who are all too
often invisible in the face of such a crisis. It is the work
of those like Dr Ibru that truly makes a difference for women and
children within the country, and the services that she and her
fellow ERAF members have provided are leaving a positive impact
that will be felt for many generations to come.
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